A family remembrance for a pet, for Hindu families

A family remembrance, with a lamp and flowers

An informal family gathering with a photo, flowers and a small lamp. It isn't a Hindu rite and makes no promises about what comes next. A priest you trust can give your family guidance. About 15 minutes.

The order of steps

1. Coming togetherRead this or use your own words.

   We're together to remember [your pet's name].

   Source: Written for Bridgeside

2. Flowers by the photoPeople come forward one at a time.
3. Lighting a small lamp (optional)A small lamp or candle beside the photo.
4. What we rememberInvite anyone who wants to share.
5. A family prayer or song (optional)If your family has a prayer, song or practice, offer it in your own way. Practices vary widely, and we don't provide any text.
6. A quiet moment (optional)About a minute.
7. Care for other animals (optional)You could donate to an animal shelter or care for another animal, if that feels right. You can tell people your plan here, or skip this.
8. ClosingRead this or close in your own words.

   Thank you for being with us today.

   Source: Written for Bridgeside