Pet funeral words for Jewish families

A family remembrance, with a candle and a psalm

An informal family gathering, not a Jewish rite. It has stories, a candle and an optional psalm, and it leaves out the prayers reserved for mourning a person. Your rabbi can tell you what's right for your family. About 15 minutes.

The order of steps

1. Coming togetherRead this or use your own words.

   We're together to remember [your pet's name].

   Source: Written for Bridgeside

2. Lighting a candle (optional)Some families light a candle at home and let it burn down safely. Here, one person lights it for everyone.
3. your pet's storyA few sentences about the life your pet had with you.
4. A reading from Psalm 104 (optional)Psalm 104:10-12, JPS 1917 translation. One published rabbinic guide suggests this psalm, or Genesis 9:8-11, when a pet has passed. You can read something else, or skip this.

   Who sendest forth springs into the valleys; They run between the mountains; They give drink to every beast of the field, The wild asses quench their thirst. Beside them dwell the fowl of the heaven, From among the branches they sing.

   Source: Psalm 104:10-12, The Holy Scriptures, Jewish Publication Society (1917), public domain

5. Stories from everyoneInvite friends and family to share. Funny stories are welcome.
6. A donation in their memory (optional)Some families donate to an animal shelter or rescue, or plant a tree. You can tell people your plan here.
7. ClosingRead this or close in your own words.

   Thank you for being with us, and for remembering with us.

   Source: Written for Bridgeside